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Friday, May 11, 2012

Caleb's new bicycle

Not updating blog for almost a month now. Must be wondering what's happening right? Haha...I'm still alive and kicking. No worry, everything is fine.

This is a backlog post as I should post this a few months ago when we get Caleb a brand new bicycle. 


Dunno what went into the father's head that day when suddenly he decided to make a hole in his wallet. RM169 for that fire-yellow bike and RM10 for helmet.



 Aren't the spiderman helmet looks cute on him? :)






Not much thing to say. Brain-stuck with words again. Just enjoy the pictures, ok? :)

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

When they start talking....

Conversation #1
Caleb: Mami, do you want to play ball?

Me: Errr....no.

Caleb: No, Mami cannot say no. SAY YES!

Me: No, Mami don't want to play ball.

Caleb: No, no...SAY YES. Mami be good girl, ok? ok?

Me: (hahaha...) Okla, okla. Play ball la.

Caleb: YEAH!! Hooray! Let's play ball.

Me: *pengsan*


Conversation #2
Caleb: Where is dadi?

Me: Dadi go working.

Caleb: Go where working?

Me: Go office working lor.

Caleb: Where office working?

Me: Office lor.

Caleb: Where office?

Me: (sighhh...) Shhh....be quiet.

Caleb: No, cannot be quiet. I want to talk (cantonese: oi kong yeh)

Me: No, cannot talk. (cantonese: no, cannot kong yeh)

Caleb: (whine and started to cry) Ehhhh....oi kong yeh. wuuuu, wuuuu...

Me: *pengsan*


Conversation #3
Me: Caleb come, change and wear your pant. We are going kai kai.

Caleb: Go where kai kai? Playground or eat-eat? Which one? (we normally go out for breakfast)

Me: (wahseh, know how to ask me back) Go eat-eat.

Caleb: YEAH!! Hooray! Let's go eat-eat! (happily skipping around)

Me: *pengsan*


My mom commented that I'm cruel for not letting him talk. But hey, sometimes when all you want is some silent or peace, this guy's talking can be real annoying. Hahaha....I know, I know, I shouldn't be complaining. Well this is just another phrase we're going through in 'the walk into parenthood', eh?

Saturday, April 14, 2012

the day Caleb @ Tesco and Sushi King

Yesterday, I took Caleb out for grocery shopping in Tesco. For the past 2 months, my outing with Caleb becoming more frequent. I'm more confident in bring him out all by myself too. Ya, he can listen to the instructions and threats very well now. He knows that if he misbehave, he got 'a friend' - aka ROTAN aka CANE he is going to meet when he reached home.

I'm glad that he found sitting on the trolley is a fun thing to do and he'd quietly sit in there.

As we were browsing through rack of stuffs, suddenly Caleb whispered: "Mami, shh shh..." I asked him to say it one more time and yes, he repeated again "Shh, shh..." Oh.My.God.

I told him to hold his pee while I ran over to cooking oil station and grabbed a bottle, put in the trolley and dashed out to an empty counter to pay. All these while I constantly asked him to hold it, hold it. Dont shh, shh on the trolley, ok?

We finally made it to the toilet on ground floor safely. Phheewwwww........ I can't imagine if he really peed on the trolley and on the floor. *shiver*

So, both of us had Sushi King for lunch, yum yum. Caleb likes japanese food very much, luckily. Now I have a companion if I craved for sushi or ramen. Haha. Oh, and we can forget the father in this case.

While waiting for our bento set to arrive, I took a plate of Edamame for him.

He loves it so much and let me have a peek inside. :)

I ordered this bento for both of us. Caleb whacked most of the rice and salmon and some pieces of fried chicken. He gave me two thumbs up for this.

Concentrating on using chopstick.

This is his smiley face when I asked him to show me one.

At last, gave up on using chopstick. Use hand better la... haha

Monday, April 9, 2012

Another indoor playground for Caleb

About one month ago, out of the blue, somehow I dont know why, I took the challenge to bring Caleb out to shopping mall all by myself.  Never once I've thought of bringing him to any shopping mall without the father but somehow that day, I did. And I'm glad I did because we found something there.

REKA ZONE - an indoor playground.

Still remember the first indoor playground we brought him to Megakidz in Midvalley? He really went head over heels there until didn't want to go back. But it's normal la right? Suddenly got so many things to play with, big place to run around. The only problem is it's too far from my staying place and it's quite pricey also la. 

So, I went in to check out the price. Surprisingly the entrance fee is quite cheap. For non member it's only RM15 and if you're a member, it's only RM10 (on weekdays) for kids at age 2 - 12 years old.

Ho ho ho...I became their member on the spot. Paid all the necessaries like member's fee, entrance fee and bought 2 pair of socks - one for both of us :)
Peek-a-boo!

Nevertheless, Caleb was having a helluva fun there and the good thing, it doesn't burn a hole in my wallet :) For this month, they are having another 10% discount for the members. So, the entrance fee is only RM9 for unlimited fun time. 

Basically he went gaa-gaa-goo over all those colorful balls. Oh, my son loves BALLS very much.

The orange machine is for them to feed lots and lots of balls inside, press a button attached and all those balls flying out from the hose and creating 'rain of balls' effect.

Caleb was going 'high' when he saw all these!

Going through wavy-netted tunnel....and weeeeee....down the slide.

Air Bouncer - not Caleb's favourite thou. He hardly went inside there and bounce but he bounced like mad on bed at home. Wonder why...

Reka Zone Aviation Play System. Just a small one if compared with Megakidz in Midvalley. But it's already sufficient to accommodate a toddler  (like Caleb's age). It is safe and not so high. Caleb could climb up without my help and me watching him from below. Telling him numerous time to be careful.

 Rock climbing? Nahhh....

Slide? Yesssss..... He can play this over and over and over again.

 Ok, time to go into the house. This is Caleb's house :)

This is the way we wash out hand, wash our hand, wash our hand...

So now, I'm bring him to this playground once a week, more like a routine. If he behave well, maybe twice a week. But the most important thing is the mother hor, also bored at home too la. Sometimes we need to take a breath outside.

:)

Monday, April 2, 2012

the day Caleb @ Sunway Medical Centre

Pardon me for my lack of updates recently. My brain just stuck and words doesn't flow in as always hence the absent in checking my blog as well as my other bloggie friend's blog. Hehe..paiseh.

For a start, Caleb was diagnosed with food poisoning last week. He is well and happy now, so no worry. But it was a sight and experience that I shall not forget, not in near future as per se.  

It all started on Tuesday morning, early morning somewhere around 5-6am, he was mumbling of tummy pain-pain. I took no notice of it. Bad Mummy! :( Well, I just brushed him off, telling myself he was just having a dream as usual. This fellow, he dream-talking almost everyday. Sometimes he'd mumbling from his sleep with his eyes closed....

Anyway, the first signal, he vomited out all his 8 oz morning milk. All of it, yea, like a fountain. No joke! A fountain of milk. I was stunned. His whole face, pyjamas, pillow, on the floor...all covered with milk. We quickly rushed him to the bathroom and he had a quick shower. He appeared normal, just that he kept on asking "what happen to you, milk-milk?" Haha...

The 2nd signal was when he vomited again 2 hours later while we were eating at Old Town Kopitiam. He had egg toast and milk which I brought from home. Purging out again....this time, like a lava bursting from a volcano.
The table, the baby chair, on the floor.....all. We definitely caught some stares there. Old Town's waiters must be cursing us... O.o

By now, we noticed something really wrong with him. Ok, off to the clinic.


Doctor suspected it was probably due food poisoning. He advised us to spoon-fed him with diluted ORS (Oral Rehydration Salt) every 15 minutes. 2-3 teaspoons at a time. It's important to keep him rehydrate when times like this and some medicines, before and after meals.

At home, he kept on throwing up on every single thing he ate. Cereals, breads, biscuits.....everything. Nothing seems to stay in his stomach. He had diarrhea too, about 4 times in 2 hours. Watery-yellowish stools.

He really scared the shit out of me.

He keep on asking me for bread-bread. I know he is hungry and I keep on remind him to chew his food slowly but he just chomped everything down. I even cut 1 piece of bread into 4 pieces and offered him one at the time. But each time after he ate 1 piece, 5 minutes later, he threw up again. It was a scary sight. He was still holding on a piece of bread when he threw up and after he was done, he chomping away again, as if nothing happen. Haaaiii........hungry but couldn't eat. So so sad.. :(

Doctor's prescription not helping at all. I'm not sure if he threw up all the medicines as well before they even have the chance to get working. Poor poor boy.

Anyway, we decided we/he had enough when he was still threw up at 10pm. Now it's officially that he had nothing in 12h and plus the last meal he had the previous night, it already 24h he gone without any foods in his stomach. We were worried as hell.

We took him to Sunway Medical Centre. On-duty doctor got Caleb checked as we pouring our anxieties to him. How many times he vomited, how many times he passed watery stool, what he ate, I even brought the medication he currently on to the doctor to examine as well. At first the doctor was abit puzzle on what to do. Despite we told him how serious the conditions was, Caleb appeared perfectly normal. Not any lethargic sight at all..... o.o||

The doctor did not have any conclusion for us except after running test on his blood and stool. As Caleb was having a mild dehydration, doctor advised us to let him put on drips.

This is him admitted at A&E ward. Waiting nurses to come and poke his hand. At this moment, he constantly clinging on his dadi's arm and saying "I want to go home" :(
"No-lar baby, you are sick-sick now. Cannot go back, we sleep here, ok?"
"Nooooo....." :(


To make him busy, I let him play with my cards. The plastic container beside him is for him just in case he wants to throw up.


After waited for 20 minutes, 3 nurses came. The first one wrapped him up like a 'bak chang' and exposed his left arm. Luckily Caleb didn't struggle or anything like that. He just showed me his puzzled face. I know he was scared but he holding it all up. Brave boy....

One nurse was pinning his arm down while the other searching for his vein. Needle coming up and the nurses keep on asking him to look at me and I was making a 'fish face' trying very hard to distract his attention. Luckily it all over in a matter of minutes. A cardboard was place under his wrist and bandage it up.

I'm so proud of him. He didn't shed a single tear. He didn't yell or making a crazy havoc in the hospital. All nurses gave him a thumb up. Hahaha..... One nurse passed us by and stopped. She said "Eh, sudah habis ka? Tak ada bunyi pun?" (Already finished? I didn't hear a sound?)

I said "Yala, kulit dia keras macam kerbau.." (Yea, he has the skin of the bull) Hahahaha.......

Still stunned from the whole process
The bandage.
"What the heck is this?"

Not long after, Caleb was wheeled up to children's ward. Half an hour later, a paediatrician came and checked on him. I'm telling everything again on what was happening in that 12hours period of time. She checked on his tummy, hands, eyes, ears and mouth. All these while, Caleb been listening to orders and acting like a sweet baby. Awwww....... The doctor was commenting that he was like a trained-patient :)

He slept like a baby that night. For the mommies they did provide a sofa-bed alike. Only this is something like a couch. When stretching it long, voila, it became a bed.

The next morning, he had breakfast on bed. It suppose to be a porridge for him but he whacked my sandwich instead. Anyway, I just let him eat whatever he wants. After all, having a good appetite is what we've been hoping for.

Hands in the air - ermmm, with string attached :)

We discovered they have this kiddies playroom just around the corner and since then he has been pestering me (and his dadi) to bring him to this playroom from morning till night.


Later at that evening, I caught the bug/virus from Caleb. I had a bad tummy upset as well. Been to the toilet for 4 times and throwing up every single thing I ate. Kanasai...I was as limp as shit! I ended up lying on Caleb's bed instead and he was happily skipping around with his dadi in the hospital.

The 2nd night, the dadi accompanied him instead of me. I limping back home to get a good night rest. No more throwing up that night as I got no appetite but was crazily thirsty. I can't even drank water because I'm throwing up water as well. Sighh.....that night, I was sipping water bit by bit every half an hour. Torturing...can't even drink water. It remind me how we took granted on things around us. Even gulping down water is a luxury/bless.

Anyway, Caleb spent 2 days/2 nights in Sunway Medical Centre. The testing result from his blood and poo-poo showing was not due to Rotavirus. Thank God!

Total billing is RM1500. Luckily, most of it was covered by medical card and we only need to pay RM500.

Now we are seriously thinking of taking him for Rotavirus jab. Nope, he is not protected.....yet.

Friday, March 16, 2012

Caleb's Undies

Caleb has been going diaper-free for more than a month now. Of course, I still need to put diaper on him during his nap time and night time. But even that, on a few occasions, he woke up with his diaper dry, *dancing in glee* - that means I can put on the same diaper on him the next time. Save money! :)

Initially he just wear pant at home and when we went out for meal, I'd put on diaper for him. A few times during meal time, while syiok-syiok eating, suddenly he blurted out "Mami, shh-shh". Jeez, potong stim betul la.... But that's our responsibility and we must persevere until the end. Although I can just ask him to pee into his diaper. If I do that, what kind of message I'm sending to him? He will have this thinking running through his mind: 

Should I pee in my diaper or shouldn't I pee in my diaper?
Why sometimes I can pee in my diaper but sometimes mami cane me if I pee-ed?
Or is it at home I must pee in potty but when we went outside I can just pee on diaper? 

See? Confusing right? I'm confused too. How on earth a 3 years old toddler could understand?

So, now he's off diaper when we went out for shopping and eating out. That's when it got me thinking, without the diaper, wearing pant for him is kinda weird. His bird is hanging free, can run here and there and I caught him a few times clutching his birdie as if it is really flying out from his pant... Hahaha.... And it is dangerous when he wearing pant with zip, those jeans material la. I was so paranoid when I did the zipping, keep on pushing "it" go inside.... Lolzzzz....!! I'm sure you will too right?

Finally I bought a stash of underwear for him. You hear me right. UNDERWEAR. For a 3 years old kid....How old are you when you wore your first underwear? For me I have no idea, but definitely not when I'm 3 years old.

Taa-daa!! Caleb's undies! and all of them have Tom and Jerry's printing....muahahaha....


I got him XS size. The smallest available. They are so so so tiny. So cute! I can't help myself and I was laughing everytime I folding his undies. It just like the size of my palm and anyone of you who know me, my palm isn't very big. :)


This crazy mother even asked his son to pose for the camera. Hahaha.... I asked him to hold on to his shirt while I'm snapping away.


Now he is happily running all over the house with his underwear and most important, he is comfortable in it because the birdie can't run away anymore.


Hahahahaha...............Jeez!

Monday, March 5, 2012

Stir-fried pumpkin with dried shrimp

I cooked this dish for lunch today.


Stir-fried pumpkin with dried shrimps.

This is my first time cooking time and to tell the truth, it was DELICIOUS! :) I do have my mom's genes...ahem ;)


Ingredients:
- Half pumpkin or more (or sufficient to feed your whole army - for my case, my whole army just consists of me and Caleb.....duhhhh), cut in cubes
- A handful of dried shrimp, soften in warm water and drained
- 1 clove of garlic, chopped
- 1 tablespoon of light soy sauce
- Sugar to taste
- 2 tablespoon of cooking oil

1. First, heat up wok with cooking oil
2. Saute garlic and dried shimp until fragrant.
3. Put in light soy sauce and almost immediate add in pumpkin cubes and stir fry for a minute or so. The smell emitted is soooooo nice.
4. Add 1 teapoon of water and cover the lid. Do not add too much water or it will spoil the whole taste.
5. Cook over a slow fire. Once in a while open up the lid and add in another teaspoon of water, stir it. Cover back the lid.
6. Cook until the pumpkin is tender
7. Add in sugar to taste.
8, Serve hot with rice.


Caleb keep on coming in the kitchen and asked "what's that? what's that?" I said "Pumpkin" and he said "Caleb want eat pumpkin."

Hahaha.....

After the fifth time he said he wanna eat pumpkin, I let him lick the spatula instead. He looked satisfied and walked away.

Phewww...


Served with hot rice and half slice of fried Red Snapper. Oh, you wouldn't believe it how much that tiny little piece cost me. One whole slice is RM10.50! And that half pathetic looking fish on the table is RM5.25!

Now a day, nothing is cheap. Sigh....

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Rising Sun over Malaya

A few nights ago, after tucked in Caleb for bed, I switched on the tv, clicking away. I stumbled upon this documentry on Astro History Channel 555 - Rising Sun Over Malaya.
It was an intriguing documentary tells the personal stories of Malayans who endured turbulent times under Japanese rule during World War II. This happened exactly 70 years ago, the British General Officer Commanding Malaya signing the surrender document to enable Japanese rule over Singapore and Malaya.

I never heard much about it from my mom or dad. Or maybe they did, just that I forgot. Anyway, I'm gonna to ask my mom if I'm going back Bentong this weekend.

The most vivid story told by one survivor, Seow Boon Hor now 78. He was only 7 years old when he witnessed his parents and younger brother's death at the hands of Japanese soldiers. He managed to survive all because of his quickthinking mother who was pregnant at that time, shielded him with her body. It was her act of sacrifice that saved his life.

Greatest love from a mother....

And they even mention about comfort women. Ex-comfort women, Rosalind Saw now 79, broken her silence about the years she spent as a sex slave during Japanese Occupation. She was 24 years old when she abducted from her home. The soldiers put her into a lorry with other women from her village and took her to a 'comfort' facility in Penang. She was then given a Japanese name of Hanako and as a result of the rapes, she became pregnant and after giving birth to a boy, she had to return to the 'comfort station'. 

From google, I found out that she was also visited by a historian Nakahara Michiko who writes in the Journal of Critical Asian Studies. This was what he wrote from his interview with Rosalind:
[Rosalind] was taken to a big house and locked in. (The house, which still stands at the junction of Jalan Burma and Jalan Zainal Abidin, is now the Tong Lock Hotel). A sign saying ‘Exclusive Army Use’ was hung at the entrance of the hotel…She was raped continuously, on a daily basis, by Japanese soldiers. Beginning at 8.00 A.M. the soldiers would start coming in to satisfy their sexual needs. At night, officers came and stayed all night. Rosalind was given lunch and dinner. On a busy day, she would be raped by about thirty soldiers. She would just lie on the bed, naked. There was no time to get dressed.
I heart just sank. I found myself gritting my teeth, clenching my fists......
She did survive the ordeal but the scar would never be heal.

Another story told by a man that still remained in my mind for days. He witnessed his little brother who was not more than 1 year old, snatched from his mom's embrace, threw up in the air and went through the soldier's bayonet when it fall down. Cutting through the baby's stomach and all intestines split on the ground. The baby was still crying on the floor. That's how cruel and ruthless they were.

At this moment all I was thinking is to go into room and hug my baby. Gently I hugged and kissed him on the cheek. That probably woke him up from slumber. He mumbled; "Caleb sleep-sleep jor" - Caleb sleep already....

Haha..oppsss......

For those who are still interested in catching this documentary, you can watch it in youtube:








The synopsis of the documentary:
"The Second World War in Malaya from 1941-1945 was a time of darkness and despair - where innocent lives were lost and blood ran freely. The Japanese rule with an iron hand, slaughtering tens of thousands of Chinese citizens. They force young women to work as sex slaves, or ‘comfort women’ and trick others into working on the notorious ‘Death Railway’. The people of Malaya struggle for survival. When the Japanese surrender in 1945, Malaya plunges into a period of turmoil that brings it to the brink of civil war. But amidst the fire and ruins, sparks of resilience and courage grew. The painful war experience gave a great impetus to a new awakening. “Rising Sun Over Malaya” tells this little known story through the eyes of the people of Malaysia who had a personal observation of the occupation."

Friday, February 24, 2012

Home-brewed Luo Han Guo

Blame it on the weather, everybody at home is having some sort of sickness now. I'm recovering from flu and coughing, Caleb in the midst of clearing mucus in his nose (those sticky glue..eiii), BIL also coughing non-stop and jk having sore throat for a few days now.

So, I bought 2 whole of Luo Han Guo (罗汉果) to brew at home. RM3.50 each from the Chinese Herbal shop.


"Luo han guo has long been a highly regarded ingredient in Traditional Chinese Medicine, being touted as a longevity fruit. Its well known health benefits include expelling “heatiness” from one’s body and combating chronic throat and respiratory ailments such as throat inflammation. Do you know that it is also a natural sweetener, with its fruit extract nearly 300 times sweeter than sugar, while being much lower in calories"

Bought a packet of honey dates too.

Washed the outer skin with water and cracked it open with my hands. Bring a pot of water to boil, put everything including the seeds and skin in. I added a few pieces of honey dates too.

Simmer for about 45 minutes. Crushed the honey dates to bring out the sweetness in it. Wait the tea to cool and sieve it through a strainer. Pour in cups, serve warm or chilled.

Everybody had a cup or two last night.

Amazingly, I felt much better this morning. No more coughing and my phlegm was nearly gone. Jk said no more sorethroat for him too but he doubt it was due to drinking this tea....

But it worked for me. Hahaha....

I shall boil another batch of Luo Han Guo tea next week. 

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Caleb's hair cut day

Caleb's hair has been very fine and curly and very very little since he was born. Every strand is sooo refine, just like mine. In fact you can see right through his scalp. Yea, is that rare!

We'd normally bring him to hair salon to get it fixed in about 1.5 - 2 months time. His father's favourite salon where he frequent since he was a teenager. :)

Everytime, he woke up looking like this:


My mom exclaimed: "Aiyooo..... so cute, like 'crazy guy', dont' cut the hair la...!" each time she saw him looking like this.


But he hates it whenever his fringe touches his eyebrow. And when his head flaring up like a hot potato on warm, sunny day, the sweat is tickling down every strand of his hair. I guess long hair constraint more heat than short hair eh, no?

Anyway, before we came back, we took him for hair cut at the favourite salon.


He sits soooo quietly on the chair. We were surprised. The last few times we took him for  his hair cut, he was squirming around, yanking that piece of cloth off, keep on wanting to jump down.

But this time, he was steady. Hahaha...looking into the mirror and his eyes drawn together all the time. Looks like he was intense and scare of the sissor flying around his head.

"Hey uncle, go easy on that pair of sissor, will ya?"


No wailing, no screaming, not even move an inch! WAUUU...bravo, bravo...

I intended to reward him with an ice cream on the way back but the shop that we went in DIDN'T sell ice cream. Ohhh..what a bummer. We went in Watsons, wtf.... haha... 


The final outcome. Quite leng chai also ma..right? No more 'crazy guy' look already :))
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